Junkyspot is absolutely THE BEST place to buy obitsu of any size from! If he doesn't have it in stock, he doesn't list it, so you always know that you'll get what you want right away. He also has fast shipping and awesome customer service LOL.
And yea, you could say I'm biased, but Jspot is where I "discovered" BJDs at and I go there for just about everything I can! In fact, you'll find that a large percentage of the folks here are members of the Jspot forum as well - heck some of us are even mods over there
It really is a small dolliehworld sometimes LOL.
As far as male obitsu - right now there are two. The 55cm male which is pretty much the same as the 60cm female in terms of posing only he's got shorter legs. Then there is the male version that has the 60cm female legs on him....lets just say that's not the most attractive doll.
Now, depending on how "manly" you want your male to be, you could get the 50cm body and get an immature bust for it...I can't remember if the male chest pieces for the 55 will fit on it or not - but I'll bet Kiki-chan knows that.
OR you can sit back and wait along with the rest of us for the much anticipated 65cm male obitsu. You can see a bit of a him in a photo in this post:
http://www.dolliehsanctuary.com/sanctuary/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=5691 plus read about our excitement and anticipation of him LOL In terms of a manly obitsu- he is going to top the list when he's finally released.