famedglory wrote:WhiteDove01s wrote:It's gone missing 'Evil Overlord Style'. When Her Majesty moved in here, she rounded up all identification papers and locked them in a bank deposit box to prevent identity theft.
That....that is overwhelmingly illegal on her part. You really can't do that with another adults...well anything...but especially legal documents, not matter what relation you are to them. But I really do understand living with someone with her style. I hope you're able to find it!
I know, but what's illegal and what can be proven or have anything done about it are often pretty different things. It'd just be my word against hers as to why the papers are there. She can easily say the stuff was put in there with my consent - which is true enough, since with some things if I don't consent, well, I don't call her the Evil Overlord for nothing. I'm down to one cat, definitely not getting any more pets, and I keep anything I don't want broken or used as coercion locked in my room. My name's even on as a co-owner on the box, tho I have no idea where she keeps the key to it.
I was supposed to own the trailer, and that was something I could hold over her to ensure good behavior - the threat that I could take her sorry paranoid sociopath butt to a homeless shelter if she got out of line. My grandfather owned the place and promised to sign it over to me in return for fixing it up. Instead, she sent him one nice little blackmail letter (I don't know what the contents were), and it was signed over to her instead. At which point it became her way or nothing (even the highway is not an option - no car for a long time now).
About the only way I could leave would be to move myself to a homeless shelter. I've been unemployed at her insistence for more than a decade I think now (time kind of blurs any more), and probably unemployable now since she derailed any plans I had for anything past a high school education and turn 35 next month. With the economy as it is? I bolt, I starve. That simple, really. And I'm going to quit whining about it now, because basically Real Life Sux and all I can do is hold on and keep going at this point. And distract myself with roleplay and dolls.
