Alopecia No Hime wrote:Trethowan wrote:You feel strength because you weren't a doormat. You believed in yourself and stood strong, showed him you had strength and worth and value. You didn't let him get away with it, didn't minimize his wrong. You made him face it, and face himself. The sent-stammering in circles was him being flabbergasted; maybe nobody has ever stood up to him before.
You stood up to him and achieved something that day. You love him but that doesn't excuse his behaviour. Your love should ENCOURAGE confrontation. When we truly love someone we don't let them continue to hurt us or others, we stop them, confront the wrong with grace and love, but we stand up to it. True love fights. There's a power in that. Love fights for what is right, for what is just, and for what is true.
Thanks..I needed to hear that. I feel good...No remorse about it. It was about time he had his ass handed to him.
Alopecia No Hime wrote:So how come I feel strength now instead of anger? Power knowing I sent him stammering, talking in circles and him finally saying he didn't know what to make of me...A little bit of a giggle from realizing I finally did it and stepped up to the plate.
SoapBubbles wrote:Alopecia No Hime wrote:So how come I feel strength now instead of anger? Power knowing I sent him stammering, talking in circles and him finally saying he didn't know what to make of me...A little bit of a giggle from realizing I finally did it and stepped up to the plate.
I agree with what Trethowan said, and I also think it's because you completely won; you went in there to direct his attention from your mother and you succeeded! And not only did you succeed your original 'plot', you even took him completely by surprise and left him wondering what had just occurred.
radiowires, how did you end up in the fake dollzone site? I haven't been thinking of watching out for this particular type of scam in BJD websites so I would like to know everything I can about it.
radiowires wrote:I wanted to let you know I found out how someone stole my credit information! Please be careful!
It was a FAKE DOLLZONE WEBSITE. Please double and triple check your URL.
It asked for my credit card information when I checked out.
It then sent me to a FAKE PAYPAL site where it asked for my log in.
After I 'logged in' I was not directed to the paypal page where you choose your card and verify the payment. I was told the payment was complete. I did not receive an email or confirmation number.
The page saying my order was complete did not have any Dollzone logos or information. It was blank page with text on it only.
I have looked for this mirror site but have not found it. The actual Dollzone site is not to blame for this. I have made safe purchases from there in the past and received my orders.
If you are scared of a site being fake, feel free to contact me asking if its the same thing I experienced.
Perhaps it was a specific person who knew I would go to a fake doll site. I am not sure.
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