I know I found it odd when the FedEx person just happened to try to deliver my doll from MOC during the 75 minutes I was not home. Fortunately, he did deliver it the next day.
GH, if you haven't done so already, shoot MOC an email outlining the problems you had with FedEx. They'll be back on the 27th and I'm sure they'd want to know anytime their courier of choice doesn't do what they are supposed to do.
Apparently there's a YouTube video of a FedEx or UPS delivery guy throwing a monitor box over the fence of a gated home (security camera footage) without even trying to press the com to the house where the customer was waiting for the package. I guess he wanted to joint that flight attendant guy in the unemployment line . . .