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A little moral support please.

PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:06 am
by catshem
My Nana was admited back to the hospital for heart related problems. Due to smoking for years, she pretty much always had health issues that related back to her heart. I've come to terms, after the amount of times she's been admited and having her health just constantly take five steps back after a meager two steps forward, I've come to terms that she is most likely not going to make it to next year. I actually believe it'll be a miracle if she makes it to Christmas.

I'm not really asking for prayers or good vibes to her recovery, I'm asking for prayers and good vibes for my mother to help her get through her mother dying. We're ready for it, but it doesn't mean it's not going to be painful.

Thanks to you all.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:22 am
by Janeway
catshem l realy do understand what you and your monther are going thow due to my mother was in ICU for 5 months befor she died and dad and l know that she was going to die. I'll keep both of you in my prayer. If you need some to chat to l'm here just pm me.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:38 am
by Geektopian
Absolutely! I know many of us here have faced similar situations and understand how much the care-takers need moral support.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:57 am
by Greyhaunt
You and your Mom will definitely be in my thoughts. I spent 9 months of this year watching my best friend die of cancer, so I very truly know how you feel.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 11:13 am
by richila
You and your mother are in my prayers, my dear. (I lost my mother to cancer 14 years ago.)

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 11:49 am
by Princess_Sarah_Em
I'll keep your mother and you in my prayers.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 12:35 pm
by durianbom
You guys are in my thoughts and prayers, stay strong.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 12:39 pm
by famedglory
We're in the same situation with my uncle right now. He's been in congestive heart failure for about a decade and now his liver's going so he no longer qualifies for the transplant. It's always hard no matter how long you've had to get used to the idea. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers and whatever happens I hope it happens with peace and dignity.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 1:21 pm
by maywong
I know how you feel. I was my mother's caretaker for 3 years before she past away. She was bed ridden. The doctor, nurse, and shower lady all came to the house.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 2:23 pm
by catshem
Thanks guys :) means a lot.