I've just got hit £29 for customs (£15.83 VAT and Parcel Farce's ridiculous handling fee of £13.50) for something form Japan that cost around £126 (doll plus shipping) I also then got stung an additional amount on top for Saturday delivery as that's the only day I could guarantee I'd be around when they delivered
. That was for an Obitsu 50cm from Parabox (which worked out the cheapest place as they gave me a discount on the price because the order was over a certain amount...). Even with the customs and redelivery fee it was cheaper than buying it from a European dealer (Think Pink in this case, as Angeleseque don't do Obitsu) - by about £35.
But it depends on the seller. None of my Fairyland orders so far have been hit for customs, for example. If my next one comes through without charges, I'll have to see if they've marked it down.
And I'd also recommend Angelesque. But not for a few more days as she's off on holiday til the 18th...