by WhiteDove01s » Sun May 31, 2020 9:32 pm
I've also been absent a good while (again) for a pile of various reasons that all tend to boil down to the same thing (FML). I'm an unpaid live-in caretaker for my mother who is on SSI-disability. This basically means I'm used to living as a shut-in and already have for the last two decades, and that our financial situation has stayed pretty much the same (I can't have an income or DHHR threatens to take twice as much as I make from her check, so I haven't been allowed to officially work for most of my adult life. I have some small income from Spoonflower and online surveys, but I can't exceed $400 in a year.)
So far the biggest differences in our lives was that we haven't been able to get toilet paper for some time (we made a home bidet with a pump garden sprayer that had only been used for water and are drying with cotton rags that we then wash), and the Covid Check thing. I nearly had a meltdown over the last one. They sent me more money than I've had at one time in about 20 years, and did it less than a month before our biannual DHHR review. I didn't trust DHHR not to penalize us if any was left, and I barely managed to spend it all in time. (Most went towards parts for a computer of a better quality than I am normally able to save for, both in the hopes of doing some 3d graphics work and game design that interests me, and because internet is a necessity for us to pay bills and get food.)
Between that, house repairs, emergency supplies, some extra food in case, and so on, very little of the check actually went towards dolls... though I did manage to get a few for under $10 each: A Kid Kore girl I thought looked like an older Luna Lovegood, that one Ken Fashionista with the long blond hair, the Harry Potter Yule Ball doll, and four Jem dolls in "Thank Goodness They Didn't Just Toss Them In A Landfill And Deny Me My Fun" condition. Rio's covered in mold, Kimber's been decapitated and one hand chewed, Stormer's hand is detached, and Aja's elbows don't bend and her hair was cut. Going to have fun with those. I did also finally order some doll hair and a reroot tool so I can get to some projects that have been backlogged for years due to lack of supplies.
Everyone else still holding up? I'm not sure how good I'd be at 'how to live like a recluse' advice since I'm pretty sure I'm not neurotypical (not properly diagnosed, tho, because psychiatrists cost money and I have trust issues), but I might be able to think of some helpful solutions. Like that home bidet. The sprayers are only about $12, and with two people I'm still only refilling it once a week.