by OkamiKodomo » Mon Jan 09, 2012 2:57 pm
I also tend to hang out in a few specific threads, and then lurk like nobody's business in the customization and sewing subforums. My two favorite threads are the ResinSoul large and mini discussion threads because a)most of my dolls fit into those threads, and b)everyone is so friendly there. In fact, quite a few are also members of DS, such as Almy and Cirquemom. -waves-
Granted, I don't think that their criteria is all that horrendous. I do think there are some dolls that were unfairly rated off-topic, due to that aforementioned "Asian aesthetics" clause, but it's well-known that DoA is a bit elitist.
I do have a tip for anyone who would like to join: Lurk in a thread for a while, before joining the conversation. Read a few pages back, get familiar with the active posters. And for heaven's sake, stay away from the "Debate" threads if your opinion doesn't match the norm. I saw one unfortunate soul bring down the wrath of the nine hells on her head for stating something that most other members disagreed with, and there was a whole five pages worth of people calling her out. It's all well and good to be a rebel, and have different opinions from everyone else, but that's when Mom's advice of 'if you don't have anything nice to say' applies. It's known as the Den of Kittens for a reason. Folks get butthurt over there way too easily, but it IS a useful source of tips, tricks and tutorials, as well as member feedback. If you're a thief or a scammer, DoA will expose you sooner rather than later. Likewise, if you're reliable and pleasant to deal with, your praises will be sung.
Too many dollies to list. Check my profile if you wanna know who's who!